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1. To achieve its full natural end, essential andsecondary, marriage requires the permanent union of husband andwife. Therefore, permanence in marriage is a requirement of thenatural law, at least in the secondary precepts of that law. Andwhat is required by the natural law is required of all men withoutexception, Christian and pagan, Greek and Roman, Jew and Gentile.It is not just a requirement of church law that a man should cleaveto his wife in permanent and unbroken wedlock.
2. It sometimes happened in the Old Law, that a man puthis wife away by "a bill of divorcement," and that thisexceptional act was sanctioned by Mosaic precept. But such aseverance of the marriage bond is not possible when the marriage isalso the sacrament of matrimony.
3. Our Lord himself tells us (Matt. 19:8) that the Mosaicpermission for divorcing a wife was granted on account of thehardness of the hearts of the people, and adds, "From thebeginning it was not so." It seems that this Mosaic permissionamounted to a dispensation from the marriage bond to prevent theterrible crime of wife-murder to which the people were prone.
4. Yet it is not clear that the Mosaic "bill ofdivorce" permitted the separated spouses to marry again.
5. But it is clear that a husband, having repudiated hiswife by a "bill of divorce," could never take her backagain.
6. Doubtless, hatred of a wife, and whatever gave rise tothat hatred, could be adduced as reasons for giving her the"bill of divorce," but it seems that these reasons hadvalue only because they could lead directly to wife-murder.
7. The causes of the severance of spouses were not givenin detail in a Mosaic "bill of divorce," but wereexpressed in a general way.
"Before a man chooses his confessor, he ought to think well about it, and pray about it also; but when he has once chosen, he ought not to change, except for most urgent reasons, but put the utmost confidence in his director."
St Philip Neri
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"Men should often renew their good resolutions, and not lose heart because they are tempted against them."
St Philip Neri
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"A single act of uniformity with the divine will suffices to make a saint."
St Alphonsus de Liguori
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